All of us have a choice in life!! Either you die empty or die a hero.

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Recently watched the movie “After Earth” and to be honest movie was a bit slow. Yeah, what would you expect from “Mr.  M. Night Shyamalan” but the one thing I liked about the movie was the amount of inspiration it brings to the audience.

I just loved these wise words from will smith,

“Fear is not real. It is a product of thoughts you create. Do not misunderstand me. Danger is very real. But Fear is a choice.” –Will Smith

This particular quote is very close to my heart as it boosts your energy in every possible way and brings an in-depth meaning to human life. I bet everyone would have gone through the stage of fear at certain point of time in your life.

For example,

Babies have the fear of getting up and walking. Kids at schools have the fear of getting abused from teachers for low grades or getting bullied from senior kids. Students at professional colleges have the fear of getting flunked in the exam or fear of not getting the right career. Working professionals have the fear of getting fired and bachelors/maiden professionals have the fear of getting the wrong girl/guy to spend their entire life. Entrepreneur or business owners have the fear of loosing their clients and business to the other rivals. Parents have the fear of their kid’s success, Doctors have the fear of loosing their patients, Patients with lethal diseases have the fear of loosing their life and the list goes on.

The first duty of man is to conquer fear; he must get rid of it, he cannot act till then ~ Thomas Carlyle

What I would like to tell is,

No matter what we do, there is always a danger waiting for you, that’s how the life works. To fear that particular danger is your own choice. As shown in the movie “After Earth” the alien doesn’t have eyes but it senses humans by their fear and destroy them. When we let go all our fear then we earn ourselves an advantage of destroying it first. The same goes with our lives, until and unless we don’t let go our fear and start taking calculated risks, we will be trapped under the decoys of danger.

Pick the day. Enjoy it – to the hilt. The day as it comes. People as they come… The past, I think, has helped me appreciate the present – and I don’t want to spoil any of it by fretting about the future ~ Audrey Hepburn

Fear is just a product of our thoughts. These thoughts may or may not happen in the future. So my dear friends stop assuming and start acting. When you fear something, just hold your ground and analyze the situation take the right decision. You might think the danger is beyond your limit and defeating is impossible, Remember there is nothing called impossible and the danger possesses you because you are the right rival for it. You have all the abilities to defeat it. Fight it Don’t Fear it, be a Hero !!!!!

Lets today be the day we start realizing that we only get to live life once, let’s not waste it. Let’s not take any haste decisions which will let us down in our eyes and in the eyes of your loved once. Let’s not loose the hope. Lets believe in destiny. Let’s not envy anyone. Let’s not wish bad for anyone. Let’s not loose the presence of mind.

Fear nothing. Fear is a choice !!!!!!!!!!

We all have what it takes to succeed in life so JUST DO IT. And let’s not look back. We control our own destiny. We should not blame anyone for ourselves. Let’s contribute to life as a human being.

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Eventually all things fall into the right place!!!!

Let me start my long awaited topic by quoting the words said by my favorite rapper Eminem about life,

The truth is you don’t know what is going to happen tomorrow. Life is a crazy ride, and nothing is guaranteed. ~ Eminem

Life is mysteriously beautiful and you will never know what its end game is. Sometimes it serves you with all the luxury and sometimes acts like some old BITCH!!!! In other words it will always keep you in confused state. But one good thing about life is, it gives substantial chances to finish the race. These chances are given to everyone not to win or lose but to finish the race. In life’s adventurous journey, we all have to firmly believe that no one here is a looser rather is a learner.

Life runs its own errands and no one knows the end results but all we could do is fill in our time, strength, determination to complete it and while doing it no matter how many bad obstacles you get, just believe that EVERYTHING HAPPENS FOR A REASON. Believe that life is evaluating you for the greater good. Believe that sooner or later good things will come and stay for longer time.

The one main thing I would like to highlight here is,

Stop Cribbing and Start Believing!!!!

Be sure you put your feet in the right place, then stand firm. ~ Abraham Lincoln

There is nothing like Loosing/Winning, things happen for a reason and that to for a good reason but we the people have made a huge barrier between winning and losing that we forgot the actual essence of life. These days we are forced to think that people who has name, fame and good wealth is a winner and the person who doesn’t have is a looser. If you are one of those who think the same then better STOP it, because people have their own way of dealing with the problems whether they are rich or poor. Until and unless you don’t put your feet in to their shoes and see, you will never understand their actual world.

For Example: When you see a mountain from far away, it looks so beautiful and scenic but you will get to know the real challenges when you start trekking the mountain.

So stop comparing yourself with others and stop cribbing about the things are happening to you and start believing that they are happening for a good reason.

In my perspective the real winner is the one who has an inner piece, who is content and who goes to bed every day with a smile and hoping to see a new and happy day tomorrow. This doesn’t mean that the happiest person doesn’t have problems, what makes him unique and happy is he believes in destiny, he believes that “Eventually all thing falls into the right place”.

Let today be the day you look at life positively, look for the good in everyone and respect each other’s journey of life.

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You can Run, You can Hide but You can’t Escape!!!!!

“What you don’t understand now you’ll understand later. Keep living!” ~Anon

No wonder !!! It’s quite often that life puts us in some inescapable situations. Due to these situations sometimes we feel like the world has just ended for us, we see ourselves sailing away from our dream and goals, we feel depressed and so on. Whenever you find yourself into those situations Just remember there is no escape route. The only route through is to hold your ground tight and bravely face the situation till the end. Remember no matter how bad the situation is, It is temporary.

After all, Life is like a tangled headset. You untangle it, listen to the music, then you keep it in your pocket or purse, next time you take it out you find it mysteriously tangled again. The same way life is filled with lot of tangled events. No matter how much tangled the situation is, always look forward to the nice soothing music of your choice you are going to listen.

As I always say,

“You can run, you can hide but you can’t escape!!!!!”

here are some reasonable steps to deal with the difficult situations,

• Emotion Control :

 Your intellect may be confused, but your emotions will never lie to you. ~ Roger Ebert

It’s s very important to control your emotions in difficult situation. Emotion and situation are like the driver and the navigator in World Rally Championship. No matter how good the driver is navigator plays an important role in winning the race. The same way no matter how good you are at handling the situation, without emotion control you cant escape/win the situation.

• Humor Control:

Imagination was given to man to compensate him for what he is not; a sense of humor to console him for what he is. ~ Francis Bacon

This is indeed difficult to achieve but nothing is impossible. No matter how hard life hit you, just don’t show it on your face. Humor around make people laugh, smile if not then listen to some good music watch your favorite TV show or movie, go on a long walk/drive, remember all the good memories and just try to humor yourself, laugh at your situations and move forward. Just Be happy.

• Change Control : Don’t Change until it’s worth

When we are no longer able to change a situation – we are challenged to change ourselves. ~Viktor E. Frankl

Change is inevitable but that doesn’t mean we keep changing ourselves for every situation we face in our life. Sometimes change can be very advantageous but at the same time it can be contagious. So until it’s not positive change please don’t let your situation change you.

I hope these few things might help you deal with the situation. Let me know if you have any other points in your mind to deal with the difficult situation.

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Want to Be Happier: Few Basic Things to Follow

Happiness is not something readymade. It comes from your own actions. – Dalai Lama 

Happiness meaning “pleasant and contented mental state”. Let me ask you, how many of us have contented mental state? How many of us are living the life we dreamt? How many of us are proud of ourselves? The answer is very few. Believe me these few people are hard to find in this jeopardized world. Here are some of the basic yet important actions to be happy.

• Appreciating
  The meaning itself says “to esteem or value highly”. Everyone does mistakes and no one is perfect here. So STOP blaming others and start appreciating their little contribution towards your work.
  For example,
  If you are a Boss stop blaming your employees for not meeting your expectations. If you are a father STOP blaming your child for letting you down. May be it’s because you didn’t provide them enough training. May be you asked too much too soon.
  Appreciation makes people happy, it make them realize how important they are to you. It helps them adore you more. When people start adoring you more you get happier and happier.

• Just be yourself
  Being yourself is not an easy task !!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  Half the time relationship started through dating doesn’t work because he/she always try not to be themselves. No one likes you for your clothes, your car, your possessions, your title, or your accomplishments. Those are all “entities.” People may like your entities–but that doesn’t mean they like you. Actual and loving relationship can be formed by being yourself not by impressing people with fake version of you. I am sure people will love you for what you are not for what you have.

• Let go
  We must let go of the life we have planned, so as to accept the one that is waiting for us – Joseph Campbell

  It’s important to let go things sometimes and believe in things which are coming in front in our lives. As people say whatever goes off comes back.
  Think about the situation, where your friend/parents/Boss has promised to do something for you but couldn’t do it. Don’t cling too much on the things they didn’t do it but think about the good memories they have already shred in your life.
  Put your leg into their shoes and try to understand the situation from their end, I am sure you will find the reason worth forgiving them and move on in your life.

• Optimism
  Optimism This one is my favorite and I love being optimistic. I would like to note down few things what late Steve jobs said here,
  You must believe in something, God, Karma, Destiny , it’s not important what you believe in, but it is crucial to just BELIEVE.
  I always believe that the things will be all right. Everything will fall under the right place at the right time, that’s how the universe works.
  

I hope these few things might give you a boost to overcome depression and bring happiness in you. 

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