You can Run, You can Hide but You can’t Escape!!!!!

“What you don’t understand now you’ll understand later. Keep living!” ~Anon

No wonder !!! It’s quite often that life puts us in some inescapable situations. Due to these situations sometimes we feel like the world has just ended for us, we see ourselves sailing away from our dream and goals, we feel depressed and so on. Whenever you find yourself into those situations Just remember there is no escape route. The only route through is to hold your ground tight and bravely face the situation till the end. Remember no matter how bad the situation is, It is temporary.

After all, Life is like a tangled headset. You untangle it, listen to the music, then you keep it in your pocket or purse, next time you take it out you find it mysteriously tangled again. The same way life is filled with lot of tangled events. No matter how much tangled the situation is, always look forward to the nice soothing music of your choice you are going to listen.

As I always say,

“You can run, you can hide but you can’t escape!!!!!”

here are some reasonable steps to deal with the difficult situations,

  • Emotion Control :

 Your intellect may be confused, but your emotions will never lie to you. ~ Roger Ebert


It’s s very important to control your emotions in difficult situation. Emotion and situation are like the driver and the navigator in World Rally Championship. No matter how good the driver is navigator plays an important role in winning the race. The same way no matter how good you are at handling the situation, without emotion control you cant escape/win the situation.

  • Humor Control:

Imagination was given to man to compensate him for what he is not; a sense of humor to console him for what he is. ~ Francis Bacon

This is indeed difficult to achieve but nothing is impossible. No matter how hard life hit you, just don’t show it on your face. Humor around make people laugh, smile if not then listen to some good music watch your favorite TV show or movie, go on a long walk/drive, remember all the good memories and just try to humor yourself, laugh at your situations and move forward. Just Be happy.

  • Change Control : Don’t Change until it’s worth

When we are no longer able to change a situation – we are challenged to change ourselves. ~Viktor E. Frankl

Change is inevitable but that doesn’t mean we keep changing ourselves for every situation we face in our life. Sometimes change can be very advantageous but at the same time it can be contagious. So until it’s not positive change please don’t let your situation change you.

I hope these few things might help you deal with the situation. Let me know if you have any other points in your mind to deal with the difficult situation.

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Want to Be Happier: Few Basic Things to Follow

Happiness is not something readymade. It comes from your own actions. – Dalai Lama 

Happiness meaning “pleasant and contented mental state”. Let me ask you, how many of us have contented mental state? How many of us are living the life we dreamt? How many of us are proud of ourselves? The answer is very few. Believe me these few people are hard to find in this jeopardized world. Here are some of the basic yet important actions to be happy.

  • Appreciating
    The meaning itself says “to esteem or value highly”. Everyone does mistakes and no one is perfect here. So STOP blaming others and start appreciating their little contribution towards your work.
    For example,
    If you are a Boss stop blaming your employees for not meeting your expectations. If you are a father STOP blaming your child for letting you down. May be it’s because you didn’t provide them enough training. May be you asked too much too soon.
    Appreciation makes people happy, it make them realize how important they are to you. It helps them adore you more. When people start adoring you more you get happier and happier.

  • Just be yourself
    Being yourself is not an easy task !!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    Half the time relationship started through dating doesn’t work because he/she always try not to be themselves. No one likes you for your clothes, your car, your possessions, your title, or your accomplishments. Those are all “entities.” People may like your entities–but that doesn’t mean they like you. Actual and loving relationship can be formed by being yourself not by impressing people with fake version of you. I am sure people will love you for what you are not for what you have.

  • Let go
    We must let go of the life we have planned, so as to accept the one that is waiting for us – Joseph Campbell

    It’s important to let go things sometimes and believe in things which are coming in front in our lives. As people say whatever goes off comes back.
    Think about the situation, where your friend/parents/Boss has promised to do something for you but couldn’t do it. Don’t cling too much on the things they didn’t do it but think about the good memories they have already shred in your life.
    Put your leg into their shoes and try to understand the situation from their end, I am sure you will find the reason worth forgiving them and move on in your life.

  • Optimism
    Optimism This one is my favorite and I love being optimistic. I would like to note down few things what late Steve jobs said here,
    You must believe in something, God, Karma, Destiny , it’s not important what you believe in, but it is crucial to just BELIEVE.
    I always believe that the things will be all right. Everything will fall under the right place at the right time, that’s how the universe works.

I hope these few things might give you a boost to overcome depression and bring happiness in you. 

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