“What you don’t understand now you’ll understand later. Keep living!” ~Anon
No wonder !!! It’s quite often that life puts us in some inescapable situations. Due to these situations sometimes we feel like the world has just ended for us, we see ourselves sailing away from our dream and goals, we feel depressed and so on. Whenever you find yourself into those situations Just remember there is no escape route. The only route through is to hold your ground tight and bravely face the situation till the end. Remember no matter how bad the situation is, It is temporary.
After all, Life is like a tangled headset. You untangle it, listen to the music, then you keep it in your pocket or purse, next time you take it out you find it mysteriously tangled again. The same way life is filled with lot of tangled events. No matter how much tangled the situation is, always look forward to the nice soothing music of your choice you are going to listen.
As I always say,
“You can run, you can hide but you can’t escape!!!!!”
here are some reasonable steps to deal with the difficult situations,
- Emotion Control :
Your intellect may be confused, but your emotions will never lie to you. ~ Roger Ebert
It’s s very important to control your emotions in difficult situation. Emotion and situation are like the driver and the navigator in World Rally Championship. No matter how good the driver is navigator plays an important role in winning the race. The same way no matter how good you are at handling the situation, without emotion control you cant escape/win the situation.
- Humor Control:
Imagination was given to man to compensate him for what he is not; a sense of humor to console him for what he is. ~ Francis Bacon
This is indeed difficult to achieve but nothing is impossible. No matter how hard life hit you, just don’t show it on your face. Humor around make people laugh, smile if not then listen to some good music watch your favorite TV show or movie, go on a long walk/drive, remember all the good memories and just try to humor yourself, laugh at your situations and move forward. Just Be happy.
- Change Control : Don’t Change until it’s worth
When we are no longer able to change a situation – we are challenged to change ourselves. ~Viktor E. Frankl
Change is inevitable but that doesn’t mean we keep changing ourselves for every situation we face in our life. Sometimes change can be very advantageous but at the same time it can be contagious. So until it’s not positive change please don’t let your situation change you.
I hope these few things might help you deal with the situation. Let me know if you have any other points in your mind to deal with the difficult situation.
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